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How mothers can support daughters coping with an …

WEBInstinctively you might have tried to get your daughter to leave her partner, tell her you don’t like him, tell her to assert herself and stand up to him, tell her to meet her own needs …

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Abusive vs healthy relationships: What’s the difference

WEBBut there’s a big difference between healthy relationships and abusive relationships. In a healthy relationship a person uses abuse on one-off occasions. You can predict that …

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Language women should use in the Family Court

WEBUsing the “language of resistance” in the Family Court. When women write affidavits aimed at helping them win custody of their children, it is common to write the negative effects, …

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How to help women abused and controlled by male …

WEBThe first stage is known as ‘Precontemplation’. When a woman being coercively controlled by her partner is fully committed to the relationship, she might talk up the positives, …

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Feeling bemused about helping women abused by male …

WEBStage 2 is all about exploring pros and cons. Ultimately, stage 2 means women may start to explore options but are not ready to end the relationship. Women may feel trapped, may …

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Tactic #10 — Denial, Minimising, Blaming

WEBDenial, minimising and blaming are destructive tactics of power and control. The perpetrator’s belief that he has to be right — at all costs — every time . . . . . leads to a …

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How to Know if a Woman is in Danger of Being Killed and …

WEBThe victim believes the offender could injure or kill her/him. The offender has strangled or attempted to strangle the victim. There is a history of family violence and it is getting …

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Hello … I am Clare Murphy

WEBI am Clare Murphy. Hello …. I am Clare Murphy. Clare Murphy PhD Counsellor Supervisor Trainer Researcher. I started this SpeakOutLoud website in January 2009 and am …

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Coercive Control to be a Criminal Offence

WEBFar seeing legislation puts the ambulance at the top of the cliff. In January 2015 the UK House of Commons amended the Serious Crime Bill [Lords] to make Coercive …

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Tactic #16 — Physical Violence: How to understand Men’s …

WEBThe belief that women violate codes of the ‘good wife’ lead some coercively controlling men to use physical violence to bring women into line (15) and to keep her in her place. (16) …

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Alpha males who use female partners as slaves and possessions.

WEBHaving a fertility problem makes him feel “less of a man”. Alpha males are “supposed to be extremely fertile” — that’s the true mark of success as a man. An even greater bonus is …

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Clare’s Research

WEBClare conducted two rounds of qualitative in-depth interviews with 16 men of white European ancestry born and educated in New Zealand or Australia, who admitted to …

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Gender: How Men and Women Experience Domestic Violence

WEBResearch shows that 90% of victims are female. (2) Men are usually the predominant perpetrator and women are usually the predominant victim. Domestic violence is the …

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How victims cope with psychological abuse and coercive control

WEBConfusion is a hallmark for a victim of one-sided power and control – whether that is a woman’s experience in relationship with her husband, or the experience of someone …

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Emotional Psychological Abuse-Power-Control-Domestic

WEBTrapped, psychologically traumatised. Isolated by perpetrators who are not free either. Masked, driven control freaks lashing out, unhappy like their victims, they emotionally …

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Tactic #9 — Using Social Institutions and Social Prejudices

WEBTactic #9 — Using Social Institutions and Social Prejudices. This is the ninth of 16 blogs discussing the patterns of tactics from my power and control wheel – Using Social …

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Tactic #3 — Inappropriate Restrictions

WEBTactic #3 — Inappropriate Restrictions. This is the third of 16 blogs discussing the patterns of tactics from my power and control wheel – Inappropriate Restrictions. In our lives we …

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Three things you need to understand to keep you and your …

WEBPsychological abuse and power and control can lead men to murder female partners. This blog post argues for the use of Jacquelyn Campbell PhD’s Danger Assessment …

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Tactics of Coercive Control Used by Men Against Intimate

WEBDestroys meaningful spiritual objects or scriptures. Forces her to engage in spiritual practices against her beliefs. Attacks her wairua/inner spirit/desire to flourish. Prevents …

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